Eye Contact and Body Language
How you look at a man and what you do with your body, can say a lot more than what words ever could. It’s important that you give him plenty of eye contact when you are talking with him and hold it perhaps a second or two longer, than what you would with anyone else. Lean your body into him as you speak, showing that you aren’t afraid to be close to him. If he’s interested in you too, you should find that he will subconsciously start to mimic your body language. If this is the case, then don’t be afraid to step it up a notch. As you speak, don’t be afraid to gently touch him from time to time, in a feminine and subtle way of course! Touching his arm as you giggle at his jokes, or a warm hug when you greet and say goodbye to each other should give him a big hint. While we’re on the subjects of his jokes, make sure that you laugh at them because this will give him a big ego boost.
Smiling Goes a Long Way
It’s important that you smile when you chat with him, your smile will be infectious and he will likely take this as a sign that you are into him. Make sure that the smile isn’t creepy, cute but genuine is key. You will find that when you smile more around him, you will naturally have more fun together which should help take things to the next level eventually.
Let Him Know that You Are Available
Some men are absolutely clueless and assume that all good looking women are taken, so they will not put the moves on right away. Make sure that you let him know that you are single, in a way that doesn’t seem like you are begging for a date. An innocent comment when you are chatting, like “Me and the girls are going out on the weekend, it’s been that way for a while since I haven’t had a man in my life.” If he’s interested in you, this should make a light bulb go off in his head and help him act more flirty towards you.
Ask Him Questions
A lot of girls like to do all the talking (and talking is good too, don’t get me wrong), but it’s also important that you ask him questions. This shows that you have an interest in the things that he likes, which means that you like HIM as a person. Paying an interest is a great way to set up a basis for more dates and possibly even a relationship in the future.
Tease Him
It might sound like you are back in school but teasing is a way of flirting with one another and it’s a fun thing to do, during those initial stages. A man who can laugh at himself is awesome but remember if you can dish it out, you need to be willing to take it too. Guys love women who are funny and laid back, so having a laugh with each other and joking around ensures that you are both on the same wavelength.
Give Him Your Number but Don’t Be Too Available
Men love the chase, so although you want to give him your number – don’t set a date just yet. Once you are finished chatting, try grabbing his phone and putting your number in, winking and then walking away. This is really cheeky and he will love that confidence that you have shown. Providing that you done the other steps correctly, he should soon give you a call/text. Don’t reply too quickly, you want to make him chase you just a little bit.
It’s very important as a strong and confident woman, that you give subtle hints to guys that you are interested. Life is short and by acting flirty and fierce, you are sure to get more dates. Dates equal fun times and possibly even love, if you meet that special one for you. By trying out the mentioned tips, even the most naive of men will know you like them and will be falling at your feet.
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